Wednesday, November 24, 2010

The Language of Love

Often times people come together and fall in love, but most never realize that they have different love languages. Or in other words the desire to love is there, but the know-how is missing. Depending on what your love language is, and the love language of your spouse, you might be giving 100% but not seeing the results.

When we give and give but dont see the results we tend to give up. This is disastrous! When we give up, its the beginning of the end. Dont give up! Dont quit! Instead learn what love language your spouse speaks then learn how to show it.

The desire to love, and the knowing how to love are very different. I can say I would like to build a website from scratch. My desire is there, but my understanding of IT design or Web Code, might not be there. So it is with love, if we dont know how to love our spouse the way they need, we could be giving 100% but it wont come across. And if our spouse doesn't know how to love us the way that we need, then their efforts will seem minimal. Leaving both exhausted and ready to give up. DONT GIVE UP!

Learn a new language! And learn how to love the way they need!


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